What makes me go further in life is not fearing rejection at all but being grateful for it instead. Actually, sometimes I even seek rejection on purpose to be sure I’m not leaving chances behind. Every single “No” I get is a “Yes” towards what I really want to be next, where, how, and with whom.
It’s simple. See it like this: take a list of a few things you want to accomplish, achieve or get; put down the names of people, things, means that you can reach out to, do, gather, or have in order to get what and where you want. After the list is done, email people, call, text, take actions because you will never move forward if you don’t have a yes or a no!
You will be either stagnant or waste chances if you do not try to seek what you want because you fear that rejection and that No. So that’s why I’m grateful for all the “Noes” I’ve encountered in life so far.
Noes are just eliminating noise from your mind about uncertainties. At least you know you’ve tried … now move on and don’t carry what’s rooted and hard to uproot as you need to be light to fly forwardly high. Never give up, just seek the “No” to get the one “Yes” you need. That’s the oneness of the one “Yes” that will eliminate the none-ness of “Noes” you’ve accumulated.
If you are passing by an old forest don’t try to uproot the proudly standing oak. Offer, instead, to plant new seeds. If the forest is welcoming then it will be richer. If not, you know that your seeds will be welcomed in a more fully inclusive somewhere else. You at least tried and that in itself is precious.
Be grateful for negations. Those “Noes” are virtual walls that are taking you towards bridges of a huge “Yes.”
As Noes equal no noise, you move quietly and certainly towards a bless of yes. The choice now is yours: are you ready for the Noes or would you rather keep the noise?
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